Books can be an important resource for exploring grief responses.
Grief is the natural, normal and necessary response to loss. It is made up of many different emotions - ranging from sadness to anger to guilt and everything in between. Adjusting to loss in a long process and is unique to each and every person. Children and adults face the same jumble of confusing emotions. Books can be an important tool for understanding emotions and sparking conversation. Listen with your heart and validate their feelings. The following books have been chosen as the top 5 for children aged 2-5. We have provided links to purchase the books on Amazon.com* but please check your local bookstore for their availability if that works for you.
1. Always and Forever - Alan Durant : When Fox dies the rest of his family are absolutely distraught. How will Mole, Otter and Hare go on without their beloved friend? But, months later, Squirrel reminds them all of how funny Fox used to be, and they realize that Fox is still there in their hearts and memories. Purchase on Amazon
2. Journey to Your Big Heart – Lori Rubin : Whether your child is 5 or 25, the journey here is a beautiful gift in itself, encouraging deep discussion and open communication amongst family, friends, and loved ones. For the adults giving "Journey to Your Big Heart" as a gift to their more mature friends and family members, it's a little like giving a Hallmark card on steroids! The pages in this book have one or two sentences and magically beautiful art. The lessons of life and love are clear, concise, and easily digested by all. Purchase on Amazon
3. Always by my Side – Susan Kerner : Always by My Side is a comforting, rhyming story written to help children understand that a father's love is forever, even if they grow up without his presence in their lives. This beautifully illustrated book conveys the heart-warming message to children that even though a father is not in their lives, he is still part of them. Purchase on Amazon
4. Ocho Loved Flowers – Anne Fontaine : Annie puts trust, love, and intuition into action when she learns how to say goodbye to her beloved cat, Ocho. Purchase on Amazon
5. Missing My Best Friend – Norma Thorstad Knapp : A story about the power of friendship between two young boys, the subsequent grief when one boy dies, and the power of a family's love. Told through the eyes of a young boy, this is a beautifully written and illustrated book about one child's grief, how the family is affected, and how parents and grandparents can help a child mourn, cope, and heal with the unexpected loss of someone close. Purchase on Amazon
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